Fearing people is a dangerous trap, but trusting the LORD means safety. Proverbs 29:25 NLT
A fear response is almost always rooted in our desire and need for control. We make our best effort to respond in a way that will protect us in whatever area we feel threatened. Of course, when a tornado is threatening, it is only wise to take shelter from that which we cannot control. Physical diseases and illnesses that can happen to us because of our neglect or refusal to live wisely should rightfully move us to do what we can. We all understand and own that some things we fear are legitimate warnings, but instead of cowering in fear, it is prudent to respond wisely.
But that’s not true of our fear most of the time. We fear people’s opinions (whether we know them or not), making decisions (they might be wrong), failing (that will make ME a failure) – on and on. Fear is a trap and a thief because it tells us what feels like truth about things we don’t know and then makes us feel small and afraid. We hide out, letting our fear steal our voice and identity.
Fear steals your clarity and courage. All of us are capable of more courage than we know. But fear can rob us of clarity, making us maximize thoughts and discount truth. When our emotions are in control we don’t think well. Our clarity will dissipate our courage, and when courage is gone, we have no strength.
Fear leads to disobedience. Looking back on my own life, I can see that most all of my poor decisions were prompted in some way by fear – fear of being alone, fear of a negative reaction, even fear of telling or hearing the truth. Living out of fear can make you say "yes" when you should say "no.”
Fear prevents you from living your purpose. When I live afraid, I cannot be my authentic self. I people please and shove my own purpose and design out of the way. I don’t discover and make my own unique contribution to the world; the purpose God gave me.
Fear is a strategy of the enemy. Satan planted the first FOMO in the minds of Adam and Eve, making them fear God was keeping something wonderful from them. It was 100% successful and has been his major weapon against us. He robs us of power and blessing, even a trusting relationship with God.
- Fear will lie to you about everything and everyone, including God, taking His control away from Him. Declare and live out your trust in the Lord. YOU are in charge of who you believe.